Non-violent communication
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Vocabulário
- 対話dialogue
- 傾聴active listening
- 尊重respect
- 要求demand / request
- 観察observation
- 判断judgment
- 欲求need / desire
- 妥協compromise
- 誤解misunderstanding
- 和解reconciliation
- 主張assertion / claim
- 受容acceptance
Making Requests and Expressing Feelings
Non-violent communication in Japanese relies on specific grammar patterns that soften requests and center the speaker's feelings rather than blaming others.
てほしい expresses wanting someone to do something: もっと話を聞いてほしい (I want you to listen to me more). It is direct but personal, focusing on your own desire.
ていただけませんか is a very polite request form: 少し時間をいただけませんか (Could you give me a little time?). This humble form shows great respect and is ideal for sensitive conversations.
ようにお願いする is used for formal or indirect requests: 静かにするようにお願いします (I would like to ask you to be quiet). It softens the request by framing it as a wish.
という気持ち allows you to name and own your feelings: 寂しいという気持ちを伝えたい (I want to express the feeling of loneliness). This pattern is central to NVC — it separates observation from emotion.
Using these patterns together enables compassionate, non-judgmental communication in Japanese.
Expressões
- 気持ちを伝えるTo convey your feelings
- 相手の立場に立つTo put yourself in someone's shoes
- 批判せずに聞くTo listen without judging
- お互いを理解し合うTo understand each other mutually
- 歩み寄るTo meet someone halfway
- 素直な気持ちを伝えるTo express honest feelings
Erros frequentes
聞いてほしいです聞いてほしいてほしい does not take です in casual emotional expression
時間をいただけませんですか時間をいただけませんかませんか already includes politeness; adding です is incorrect
静かにするお願いします静かにするようにお願いしますように is needed to connect the verb to お願いする
寂しいの気持ち寂しいという気持ちUse という to connect an adjective to 気持ち, not の
聞いていただきませんか聞いていただけませんかThe potential form いただける is needed, not いただく
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Como se diz «assertion / claim» em japonês?
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