Nonviolent communication
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어휘
- besoinneed
- demanderequest
- empathieempathy
- observerto observe
- jugementjudgment
- connexionconnection
- bienveillancekindness/goodwill
- assertivitéassertiveness
- écoute activeactive listening
- reformulationrephrasing
Non-Violent Communication in French
The Four Steps of NVC (CNV)
Non-violent communication follows four steps that require specific grammatical structures in French.
1. Observation (without judgment):
*Quand je vois que tu ne réponds pas à mes messages...* — When I see you don't reply to my messages...
2. Feeling (using emotion vocabulary):
*...je me sens ignoré(e) et blessé(e).* — ...I feel ignored and hurt.
3. Need (expressing underlying needs):
*J'ai besoin de sentir que je compte pour toi.* — I need to feel that I matter to you.
4. Request (using the conditional for politeness):
*Est-ce que tu pourrais me répondre dans la journée ?* — Could you reply to me during the day?
Concession Structures
B2 communication requires acknowledging the other person's perspective:
- Bien que + subj. — Although: *Bien que je comprenne ta position...*
- Même si + indic. — Even if: *Même si c'est difficile, essayons.*
- Certes... mais — Certainly... but: *Certes, tu as raison, mais...*
- J'entends que... — I hear that...: *J'entends que tu es fatigué.*
"Je" Statements vs. "Tu" Accusations
Replace accusatory "tu" with empathetic "je":
- Avoid: *Tu ne m'écoutes jamais !* (accusation)
- Prefer: *Je ne me sens pas écouté(e).* (observation + feeling)
Requesting Without Demanding
Use the conditional to soften requests:
*Je souhaiterais qu'on en parle calmement.* — I would like us to talk about it calmly.
*Il me serait agréable que tu fasses un effort.* — I would appreciate it if you made an effort.
표현
- J'ai besoin de comprendreExpressing a need without accusation
- Quand tu fais ça, je ressensLinking observation to feeling
- Est-ce que tu serais d'accordMaking a request respectfully
- Je me sens blessé(e)Expressing hurt without blame
- J'entends ce que tu disAcknowledging the other person
- Ça me touche beaucoupShowing emotional impact
- On pourrait trouver un terrainSuggesting compromise
- Je te propose qu'on en parleInitiating calm dialogue
자주 하는 실수
Bien que je comprends ta position.Bien que je comprenne ta position.Bien que always requires the subjunctive
Je souhaiterais que on en parle.Je souhaiterais qu'on en parle.Que before on requires elision to qu'on
Même si c'est difficile, essayions.Même si c'est difficile, essayons.Imperative of essayer is essayons, not essayions
Tu ne m'écoutes pas jamais.Tu ne m'écoutes jamais.Jamais replaces pas in negation; don't use both
Il me serait agréable que tu fais un effort.Il me serait agréable que tu fasses un effort.Subjunctive required after il serait agréable que
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